We understand “what is most deeply right” to include a pattern of Integrity, Honor, Hospitality, and Reciprocity based not on race, ethnicity, gender, sexual orientation, or nationality, but instead upon the common worth of all humanity, as dictated by the principle of heart-knowledge. We define heart-knowledge as the inborn capability of understanding and acting in accordance with common decency: the quality or state of being kind, fair, honest, and good. Therefore, as practitioners of Syrenity, we ask of all our actions:
- Is this kind?
- Is this fair/equitable?
- Is this honest?
- Is this for the greater good?
“To be a witch is to be heart-wise”, but it is what we do with that state-of-being that matters in practice and in the world. The ultimate entire point of establishing heart-knowledge is to come to understand ourself within the mundane world as well as the Otherworlds in relationship. If all that we do is learn this information and then internalize it, the only thing with which we wind up in relationship is ourselves, and too many people in our world have a profound relationship with the self already! Everything cannot point solely inward; when this becomes the case, it leads to things such as entitlement and pomposity.
So how, exactly, does one put this sort of wisdom into practice? How does one actively live out heart-knowledge? One must begin from the zero-point: that state of un-narrowness into which we are all initially born which is free, giving, open, strong, unlimited, accepting, broad, generous, liberal, tolerant, unconfined, unrestricted, and wide, rather than narrowness, which is a learned behavior which seeks to oppress, distress, and brings anguish. Living from that un-narrow zero-point builds in us an open and mindful awareness that is free from anxiety or judgment. Rather than asking of a given situation “what should I do?” or even “what should I think?”, it instead asks solely “what is this in its totality?”. The “individualized totality” of that situation then necessarily reaches its branches outward into the interconnected totality of the Universe. From this vantage point of microcosm within macrocosm, we become more able to see the potentialities of a situation, rather than turning our vision backwards and internalizing, via preconceived notions which attempt to predict a defined outcome that can’t actually be predicted. That usual sort of internalized view is where assumptions are born, and assumptions rarely serve us well. They lead to confusion and misunderstanding; maybe even outright fights.
We practice this heart-knowledge through living our lives in a “heart-wisdom-way”. This might best be understood as living life in a way that is “commonsensical”: balanced, ethical, compassionate, and useful (symbiotic). Those are the principles of the Heart-Way’s operation as well as its processes: acting through those principles, the Heart-Way creates gradual change that leads toward particular results, which are synonymous with balance, ethics, compassion, and symbiosis. When taken together, all of this defines for us the primary function of the Heart-Way, which is to radiate balance, decency, and compassion out into the world, while further promoting symbiosis (its “use”). Therefore, as practitioners of Syrenity:
We practice Integrity.
Integrity is understood to encompass Honesty, Equity, and Deeds and is defined as: “the quality of being honest and having strong moral principles; moral uprightness; the state of being whole and undivided; the condition of being unified, unimpaired, or sound; internal consistency or lack of corruption.” Integrity maintains balance: true balance isn’t as basic as “one thing or another”. Instead, it is about the flow of all things, at the same time. Every entity impacts every other entity in the Universe, precisely as in a natural ecosystem. We slowly come to understand that every distinct biome is simply a microcosm of the greater macrocosm, and that we must find our own place within that “map”. Once we realize that place, it then becomes a matter of personal integrity (honesty, equity, deeds) to behave in ways which do not negatively effect the Universe which ever-surrounds us.
- Honesty: The basic principle of honesty is to be fair and straightforward in conduct; it implies a refusal to lie, steal, or deceive in any way. It implies trustworthiness, incorruptibility, and a strict adherence to one’s word.
- Treat everyone with honesty and fairness, including yourself, and always strive to be a person of your word.
- Never lie or break your word.
- Keep your promises.
- Be guileless.
- Never shirk your responsibilities nor make excuses for not meeting them; instead, prove yourself worthy to the tasks set forth.
- Always pay your debts.
- Equity: Equity is “the quality of being fair and impartial”; in other words, it is fair-mindedness. Rather than treating everyone exactly the same way (equality), equity demands that we practice empathy, in an attempt to give people what they need to be successful, which may be quite different from person to person and case to case. Some people may require a little more of us; others may require a bit less. To truly practice equity, we must necessarily start from a place of equality, recognizing that like us, that other person is human, regardless of race, sex, gender, etc. From that place, we may more easily practice the empathy required to practice true equity, and provide what is needed. At our first interaction with a person, we should expect the same in return.
- Treat everyone with fairness, including yourself.
- Never practice prejudice nor bigotry by labeling or mistreating others.
- Do not allow others to participate in such acts of prejudice or bigotry.
- Treat everyone with equity, and expect the same.
- Deeds: Deeds are the outward sign of Integrity. They are evidence of a person’s character.
- Realize that the best of one’s abilities is all that anyone can offer, and be not only grateful for those areas in which you may excel, but also gracious with them, offering those abilities and talents as gifts to others in the world.
We practice Honor.
Honor is understood to include Courage, Justice, and Wisdom. Traditionally, it is defined as: “high respect; great esteem; adherence to what is right or to a conventional standard of conduct; to fulfill an obligation or keep an oath or agreement.” In the modern world, ethics tend to be framed within a highly dichotomous paradigm: justice vs. injustice, right vs. wrong, good vs. evil. Yet a dualistic worldview phrases these things instead as justice and injustice, right and wrong, good and evil, and understands that one quality genuinely cannot exist without the other. Does this mean that we should not seek to vanquish or otherwise eradicate injustice, wrong, and evil? Of course not! Instead, it means that rather than adopting a constant “fighting stance” against such things, which only serves to promote further balance-destroying dichotomy, we must work to honor the maintenance of balance. Only as we maintain heart-knowledge, refusing to give in to anger and remaining “heart-strong” (courage) instead, can justice, right, and good be furthered in the world in a positive, useful (symbiotic) way.
- Courage: Courage is a bit more than simple bravery; it is self-control. The word “courage” is borrowed from Old French corage; French courage. If you know anything about the French language or about Latin, you may readily see that the word “cor” or “cour” is the root of this word: “cor” or “cour” means “heart”. Ultimately, courage is about having “strength of heart“, which means also having self-control.
- Be strong of heart: control your anger
- Never harm the innocent, the outcast, or the good; never tolerate those who do.
- Never strike out purely from a place of anger, violence or hatred.
- Wisdom: In our modern world, we tend to associate Wisdom with “knowing things”; with knowledge. It both is and is not that, at the same time. The person with the “right kind” of wisdom feels no need to brag about it. And what is that “right kind” of wisdom? Heart-knowledge. Essentially: what one knows in the heart.
- Knowledge is power: be ever-learning, but also eager to share and teach what you yourself know.
- Never assume that you already “know everything”, or otherwise behave like a “know-it-all”, because you don’t!
- Be aware of the world around you, and never forget that you are intrinsically connected to All of it.
- Be willing to accept your own flaws, and also to accept change.
- Never seek a stagnant life, and be a force for change in the stagnant lives of others.
- Strive for good always, and celebrate not only the best of your abilities, but the best of others’ as well.
- Realize that the best of one’s abilities is all that anyone can offer, and be not only grateful for those areas in which you may excel, but also gracious with them, offering those abilities and talents as gifts to others in the world.
- Never behave in a “holier-than-thou” manner, and realize that if you do it will come back on you in equal measure. To behave in such a manner is to destine oneself to shame.
- Justice: The most concise definition of Justice would be “doing what is best for the good of all, as dictated by heart-knowledge“. In other words, it is actively seeking to do good: to use our voice and our actions to defend and uphold the innocent, the outcast, and the good with kindness as often as possible, yet with ferocity when necessary. Focusing constantly on the negative (injustice, wrong, evil), as with constant “calling out” of a perceived or even actual injustice, wrong, or evil, only serves to feed those things: when we do that, we think and operate with the mind, rather than the heart, giving in to our anger, no matter how righteous that anger may be. Instead, we should seek to be proactive: in the face of injustice, wrong, or evil, find ways to support and/or aid those who have been oppressed, and then focus on those things; feed those things by doing and promoting them. This keeps us thinking and operating with the heart and helps us channel our righteous anger into action which restores ethical balance and furthers symbiosis.
- Use your voice and your actions to defend and uphold the innocent, the outcast, and the good.
- Do not keep your silence when wrong has been done; call it out once, and then find ways to right the imbalance/injustice.
- Always strive to be the voice of those who may not have voices of their own.
- Never seek to silence the voices of those who some might perceive as weak.
- Never tolerate those who actively mistreat or are violent or hurtful to others.
- Defend balance and the interconnectivity of ALL things and people with thricefold ferocity when necessary
We practice Hospitality.
Hospitality is understood to include Love, Compassion, and Blessings; it is active compassion, with much in common with the Buddhist ideal of Maitri (loving-kindness; benevolence). It is an active interest in the welfare of all others with personhood which, in a deeply animistic worldview such as this one, actively includes Everything and Everyone. Basic hospitality requires us to genuinely care about interconnection as well as Everything and Everyone which/who is/are interconnected. We must reside within dualism with our full hearts. These cannot just be concepts to which we pay lip-service (mind-active); these must be concepts that we act within as well as upon (heart-active). That is the only way to ultimately restore full symbiosis. “Love” is a term which is much maligned in our modern world; it is a concept which we really need to re-embrace and reclaim. Real love cares; it resides within dualism with its full heart. Real love blesses: it protects and provides; it invokes Divine caring, thereby uniting all worlds, and not just this one. Within that union, the Heart-Way becomes ultimately useful by promoting and sustaining symbiosis.
- Love: “To love” means “to have a strong affection arising out of a sense of kinship”, yes, but that isn’t all it means. It also means “unselfish loyal and benevolent concern for the good of another, usually based out of respect“.
- Give respect until proven that such is unworthy. Behave accordingly, with unselfish loyalty and benevolent concern for the good of the other.
- Never behave from a place of selfishness.
- Always strive to improve the lives of others.
- Compassion: Compassion is “sympathetic consciousness of another’s distress, coupled with the desire to alleviate it”. According to the principle of heart-knowledge, it is, in fact, the most basic element of being human. Our hearts are born caring, and if we remain truly wise, then they stay that way!
- Always treat guests and strangers as you would hope to be treated.
- Be ever ready to offer help to others as you would likewise hope to be helped.
- Always strive to alleviate suffering, rather than bring it.
- Blessings: “Things which are conducive to happiness or beneficent welfare”. The direct opposite of evil, misfortune, and harm.
- The well-being of the Universal community demands that we seek first to bless, rather than to curse.
- Protect the balance of the Universal community by protecting those most in need: the oppressed, the distressed, those in anguish, and those who have been unjustly maligned as “undesirable” by an overly dichotomous and compartmentalized world.
- Provide for those most in need in the Universal community, as you would wish yourself to be provided for.
We practice Reciprocity.
In human action, symbiosis takes shape as Reciprocity (which demands Loyalty, and promotes Peace and Acceptance). As beings seeking to reclaim relationship with the world and Worlds around us, this automatically implies the need to build friendship via familiarity with the other-than-human beings which surround us, and also with the very human ones. Reciprocity is therefore the keynote of Syrene practice. It is traditionally defined as: “the quality or state of being mutually dependent, or of engaging in mutual action or influence; a mutual exchange of privileges; a recognition of one entity of the validity of the licenses or privileges granted by another entity; a situation or relationship in which two entities agree to do something similar for each other, to allow each other to have the same rights, etc.” As symbiosis-in-action, it is the reason why we perform offerings.
The interconnectedness of a shamanic worldview demands that actions be repaid with equal and only sometimes opposite reactions, in a form of intrinsic reciprocity which demands the utter removal of any “-ism thinking processes”, whether that be racism, genderism (inclusive of exclusionary attitudes towards the entirety of the LGBTQ+ spectrum), ableism, or anything else which actively promotes hate and exclusion of any race, ethnic group, culture, or even religion. Reciprocity means helping when you’ve been helped, and it doesn’t just mean help the person who helped you, it means to pass that help along: “laughter with laughing takes hold of a house”. It’s supposed to be a brand of reciprocity that is contagious. When we have been gifted abundantly by the Gods, we “pay it forward”, by sharing our own gifts with the world.
- Loyalty: Loyalty demands that we honor, protect, maintain, and provide for those who are connected to us. Within a deeply animistic worldview, this ultimately means Everyone and Everything, beginning with those who are closest to us in familiarity. These are the people who have proven, again and again, that they are bound by precisely the parameters of Loyalty I am about to discuss below. We strive to be that friend, loved one, or family member that those to whom we are loyal know they can come to in their times of need. We make certain that they know we can always be trusted and depended upon. The ultimate theme of “providing for” is ultimately: “no one gets left behind”, very much in sync with the Hawaiian ideal of Ohana.
- True friendship is a bond as strong as blood, and the family we choose is as important and sacred as the family into which we are born.
- The Gods are a part of that chosen family.
- Always honor and protect other persons, especially those who are closest to you in familiarity and members of the Invisible Population (including the Gods).
- Never leave those who are closest to you in familiarity, the Gods, or the Invisible Population behind or in need.
- Peace: In this context, Peace is defined as “freedom from disturbance; tranquility; a state of community and order within a given community; freedom from oppressive or disquieting thoughts or emotions; harmony in personal relationships.” It is understood within Syrenity that living in a constant state of Reciprocity guarantees all of these things in a person’s life.
- Live gift for gift and from gratitude to gratitude, rather than tit for tat.
- Seek to align and ally, rather than to maintain discord.
- Educate when and where necessary, but never do so with the intent or need of having the last word.
- Seek to prove a friend; recognize and respect those who behave likewise; otherwise, walk on and shine on!
- Acceptance: Within Syrenity, Acceptance is understood as “acknowledgment and recognition of the shared status of interconnection” which is directly brought about via living in a state of Reciprocity.
- Understand that there are imbalances in the world, yet remain focused on promoting balance.
- Be content with what you have; celebrate the small blessings of life.
- Answer even the smallest blessing with gratitude and live in that grateful state.
- Acknowledge, recognize, accept, and respect all other human beings as members of one extended family; seek ever to teach this diversified yet balanced interconnection to others.